Kevin Cooke

Marriage & Family Pastor | Elder

Kevin is from a suburb of Washington DC and committed his life to Jesus at the age of 18. After graduating from Howard University, he met his wife Bethany; they soon moved to the Bay Area and married in 1997.

After working 15+ years in Biotech, Kevin joined the Reality SF staff as Marriage & Family Pastor. In addition to serving in the eldership of the church, he also oversees our Marriage & Family Ministries, which pursue care and discipleship of married couples, parents, children, and youth.

Kevin and Bethany live in Pacifica with their children Zoe and Gordon.

Meet Our Team

Learn about some of the other folks who lead our church.

Kayla Berry, Communications Director

Kayla oversees all points of contact within our community – including website, newsletter, social media, and more.

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Jessica Gracewski, Leadership & Community Development Minister

In addition to supporting our Community Group coaches, Jessica empowers RSF congregants to create spaces for connection, equipping, and growth.

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Dave Lomas, Teaching & Vision Pastor | Elder

In addition to serving as an elder at Reality SF, Dave serves as Teaching & Vision Pastor, responsible for the overall pastoral vision and teaching of the church.

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