Tobi Grunick

Leadership Care & Support Minister

Hailing from the German hometown of the best soccer team in the world (Hannover 96), Tobi somehow made his way to Santa Barbara, California. There, he not only met his beautiful wife Kristyn, but he also started attending prayer nights for a fledgling church plant called Reality SF.

Tobi always planned to move back to Germany, but eventually God made it clear that San Francisco was where He wants Tobi to be. As the Leadership Care & Support Minister, Tobi oversees and cares for dozens of Community Group coaches, who in turn care for and support our church’s Community Group leaders.

Living in the Mt. Davidson neighborhood of SF, Tobi, Kristyn, and their son Beckett enjoy taking long walks, going out for meals, and fellowship with their community.

Meet Our Team

Learn about some of the other folks who lead our church.

Matt Barrios, Leadership Training & Development Minister

Matt trains and develops leaders in our church, while also creating the Practice content for our Community Groups.

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Kristen White, Office Manager

Kristen makes the Reality SF Headquarters a hospitable space for all, using her gifts of administration, prayer, and genuine care.

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Marissa Smit, Children’s Ministry Director

Marissa equips volunteer teams, curates curriculum, and oversees Sunday operations in our Children's Ministry, The Village.­

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